Yes No Button

Okay, so I've never considered myself an indecisive person. Not really. I mean, I know what I want for breakfast (always coffee, sometimes toast), I have opinions about movies (strong ones), and I rarely spend more than five minutes deciding what to wear (black goes with everything, right?).

But lately, I've been noticing something... concerning. The number of tabs open on my browser has gotten, well, embarrassing. Vacation rentals I'm comparing. Articles I'm reading about whether I should refinance my mortgage. Three different online courses I might take. Recipe variations for the dinner I'm hosting next weekend.

And none of these tabs were getting closed. Because decisions weren't getting made.

It's like I've developed this new habit where I research endlessly but never actually choose anything. Decision constipation. Is that a thing? If not, I'm making it one.

The Tipping Point

Last month, the whole situation came to a head when my partner asked if I wanted to go hiking or to the beach that weekend.

Simple question, right?

Cue me spending 45 minutes checking weather forecasts for both locations, texting friends who had recently done either activity, and scrolling through photos from our previous trips to both places to "remind myself of the vibe."

My partner just stared at me, coffee getting cold in their hand, completely bewildered.

"It's just a day trip," they said. "Why is this so hard?"

Good question. Excellent question, actually.

Enter the Button

That night, after finally deciding on the beach (it was lovely, thanks for asking), I fell down a Reddit rabbit hole about decision fatigue. Somewhere in the comments, someone mentioned using a yes no button to break decision paralysis.

I was... skeptical. Very skeptical. But also desperate enough to try basically anything at this point.

So I clicked through to this website called the Yes or No Button and just stared at it for a minute. It was really simple—a space to type your question and a button that says "Press to Decide."

My first question was admittedly silly: "Should I have ice cream tonight?"

I pressed the button.

A popup appeared with a big "YES" and an actual voice said it out loud, which made me laugh because I wasn't expecting it.

Well... I guess I'm having ice cream then!

As I dug into my mint chocolate chip (no regrets), I started thinking about how I could really test this thing. Could a random Yes or No generator actually improve my decision-making?

I decided—all by myself, thank you very much—to try an experiment.

The Seven-Day Challenge

For one week, I would use the button to make at least three decisions a day. Some small, some medium-sized. Nothing life-altering (I'm not completely ridiculous), but substantive enough to matter.

Here's how it went:

Day 1: The Easy Stuff

• "Should I try that new coffee shop today?" (YES) • "Should I call my mom back now or later?" (NO – later it is) • "Should I wear the blue shirt to dinner?" (YES)

Verdict: Pretty painless. The coffee shop was actually amazing—had this lavender latte I probably wouldn't have tried otherwise. And the blue shirt got compliments. Off to a good start.

Day 2: Work Decisions

• "Should I speak up in this meeting about my concerns?" (YES) • "Should I take on that extra project my boss mentioned?" (NO) • "Should I rearrange my desk today?" (YES)

Verdict: Okay, the meeting one was interesting. I probably wouldn't have said anything, but the yes no button said yes, so I voiced my thoughts—and it led to a really productive conversation! Not taking on the extra project felt right immediately. And my desk looks way better now.

Day 3: The Weird One

• "Should I text that friend I haven't talked to in months?" (YES) • "Should I try making that complicated recipe tonight?" (YES) • "Should I buy those concert tickets?" (NO)

Verdict: Mixed results. Reconnecting with my old friend was great—we're getting coffee next week. The recipe was a disaster (turns out I don't have the culinary skills the button thinks I do). The concert ticket one was hard—I felt disappointed by the "no," which actually told me something important: I really wanted to go. So I overrode the button and bought the tickets anyway. Sorry, button!

Days 4-7: Getting Braver

As the week continued, I started asking slightly bigger questions:

• "Should I sign up for that photography class?" (YES) • "Should I finally delete those dating apps?" (YES) • "Should I plan a solo weekend trip next month?" (YES) • "Should I apologize to Sam about what happened last year?" (YES)

(Apparently the Yes or No Button was in a very affirmative mood those days!)

What I Learned

After my week of button-assisted decision making, I sat down to reflect on the experience. Here's what I figured out:

1. The button isn't magic—it's a pattern interrupter

The real value wasn't in the yes or no answers. It was in breaking my cycle of overthinking. By introducing this random element, I stopped the endless research spiral and moved to action.

2. My reaction to the answer told me what I really wanted

When the button said "no" to the concert tickets and I felt disappointed, that was valuable information! Same with the relief I felt when it said not to take on that extra work project. Our emotional reactions to random decisions can be surprisingly insightful.

3. Having a scapegoat reduces anxiety

There's something freeing about being able to blame a Yes or No generator if things don't work out. "Well, the button told me to try that restaurant!" It removes some of the pressure of perfect decision-making.

4. Not all decisions are button-worthy

I found this tool works best for decisions where:

Both options are basically fine
You've been stuck in indecision for too long
The stakes are relatively low to medium
You just need a push in any direction

5. Sometimes a random push leads to surprising joy

That new coffee shop? The reconnection with an old friend? The desk rearrangement? All little bright spots in my week that might not have happened without that random push.

The Aftermath

It's been about a month since my experiment ended, and I haven't abandoned the yes no button completely. I still use it when I catch myself in that familiar overthinking spiral—like when I spent 20 minutes debating between two very similar pairs of shoes recently. (The button chose the blue ones, if you're curious.)

But more importantly, I've become more aware of when I'm slipping into decision paralysis. Sometimes I'll catch myself with fifteen tabs open and think, "Oh, here we go again." And I'll either use the button or—more frequently now—just make the decision myself.

My partner has noticed the difference too. Last weekend, when they suggested either trying a new restaurant or cooking at home, I responded within seconds: "Let's try the new place." The look of shock on their face was priceless.

Would I Recommend It?

Listen, I'm not suggesting you use a random Yes or No Button to decide who to marry or what career to pursue. That would be... not great advice.

But for breaking through that weird inertia that comes with modern life and too many options? For pushing yourself out of comfortable ruts and overthinking spirals?

Yeah, actually. I would recommend it. At worst, you'll have a funny story about that time you let a website decide what you should have for lunch. At best, you might find yourself making decisions more easily and living a slightly more spontaneous life.

And in a world where we can spend 45 minutes choosing what to watch on Netflix, a little randomness might be exactly what we need.

Have you ever tried using a random decision maker? Or do you have your own tricks for overcoming decision paralysis? I'd genuinely love to hear about them in the comments!

P.S. In case you're wondering—yes, I did use the button to decide whether to publish this post or not. Clearly, it said yes. Though honestly, I was going to override it if it said no. Some decisions you already know the answer to; you just need permission to make them.

Introduction: When Life Gets Weird, I Click

Decisions are the spice of life—some are mundane, like picking socks, and others are wild enough to make you question your sanity. Me?

I’ve got a confession: I’ve handed over some of my craziest choices to a Yes No Button. Not a friend, not a fortune teller—just a simple, random click that says “Yes” or “No” and sets me free. It’s my secret weapon against overthinking, and boy, has it led me down some unexpected paths.

From dyeing my hair neon green to crashing a stranger’s party, I’ve let this little tool call the shots on decisions too bizarre for my brain to handle. Today, I’m spilling the beans on 10 of those moments—each one a testament to the chaos, fun, and freedom a Yes No Button brings.

Buckle up, because these stories are as wild as they come, and they all started with one brave click on Yes No Button. Ready to see what happens when you let randomness rule? Let’s go!

1. Should I Dye My Hair Neon Green?

It was a rainy Thursday, and I was bored out of my skull. Staring at my reflection—same old brown hair—I spotted a bottle of neon green dye I’d impulse-bought months ago. Why not? I thought. Then the doubts hit: What if I look like a lime? What if my boss fires me? Too many “what ifs.” I grabbed my phone, hit the Yes No Button, and asked, “Should I dye it?” Yes. An hour later, I was rocking a glow-in-the-dark mop, grinning like a kid. My coworkers loved it, and I felt unstoppable. Crazy? Sure. Worth it? Absolutely.

2. Do I Crash That Party Across the Street?

Saturday night, music thumping from a neighbor’s house—lights flashing, laughter spilling out. I didn’t know them, but the vibe screamed fun. Should I crash it? My brain screamed “No way,” but my curiosity begged. To the Yes No Button: “Crash the party?” Yes. I threw on a jacket, walked over, and—awkward intro aside—ended up dancing till midnight with strangers who became friends. Turns out, they thought I was a cousin’s plus-one. Wild night, zero regrets.

3. Should I Adopt a Pet Fish Today?

Pet stores are dangerous—I can’t walk past without wanting a furry (or scaly) pal. Last month, a tank of neon tetras caught my eye. Fish are easy, right? But also: Tanks leak, fish die, I’m lazy. I clicked the Yes No Button: “Adopt a fish?” Yes. Meet Bubbles, my new roommate. He swims in circles while I sip coffee—low stakes, high vibes. That button turned a whim into a win.

4. Can I Skip Work and Call It a Mental Health Day?

Monday blues hit hard—emails piling up, coffee cold, soul drained. Should I fake a cough and stay home? Risky, but tempting. I asked the Yes No Button: “Skip work?” No. Grumbling, I dragged myself in—and good thing, too. My boss praised a project I’d forgotten about, and I dodged a guilt trip. The button knew better than my lazy streak.

5. Should I Try That Sketchy Street Food Truck?

A new food truck rolled into town—tacos with a sauce labeled “Death by Spice.” My stomach growled, but my brain flashed warning signs: Food poisoning? Hours on the toilet? I hit the Yes No Button: “Try it?” Yes. One bite, and I was sweating, crying, and laughing—spicy heaven. No regrets (or hospital visits). That click unleashed a flavor bomb I’d have missed.

6. Do I Buy That $10 Mystery Box at the Thrift Store?

Thrift shopping is my jam, and there it was—a taped-up box labeled “Mystery, $10.” Treasure or trash? I waffled—$10 isn’t much, but it could be junk. Yes No Button time: “Buy it?” Yes. Inside? A vintage Polaroid camera, working perfectly. I’ve been snapping pics like a hipster ever since. Crazy gamble, epic payoff.

7. Should I Text My Ex at 2 A.M.?

Late-night nostalgia hit—I scrolled old messages, tempted to type, “Hey, you up?” Bad idea? Good closure? My heart raced; my head said no. I asked the Yes No Button: “Text them?” No. I shut my phone, slept it off, and woke up relieved. That “No” saved me from a cringe-fest—and maybe a restraining order.

8. Can I Wear Flip-Flops to a Fancy Dinner?

Dinner invite: “Dress nice.” My closet? A mess. Flip-flops stared back—comfy but risky. Will they notice? Yes or No Generator Button: “Wear them?” Yes. I strutted in, toes out, and owned it. Turns out, the vibe was chill, and my quirky choice sparked laughs. Fashion faux pas turned icebreaker—thanks, button.

9. Should I Sing Karaoke in Public for the First Time?

Bar night, karaoke machine blaring—I’d never sung publicly, but “Sweet Caroline” called. Embarrassment city? I clicked the Yes No Button: “Sing it?” Yes. Voice shaky, I belted it out—crowd cheered, friends filmed, and I felt like a rockstar. That click turned fear into a memory I’ll cherish.

10. Do I Quit Social Media for a Week?

Scroll fatigue hit—endless memes, no peace. Could I ditch it? I’d miss the chaos, but maybe gain sanity. Yes or No Button: “Quit for a week?” Yes. Seven days offline, I read a book, napped hard, and felt human again. Re-entry was rough (so many notifications!), but that break? Priceless.

Why I Love My Yes No Button

These 10 moments—wild, weird, wonderful—prove one thing: a Yes No Button isn’t just a tool; it’s a vibe. It’s not about logic or overanalyzing—it’s about letting go and rolling with the chaos. From green hair to karaoke glory, it’s pushed me past doubt and into action. Sure, I could ask a friend or flip a coin, but friends waffle, and coins are boring. This button? It’s instant, fearless, and lives right where I need it: Yes No Button.

The Crazy Truth

Here’s the kicker: I didn’t expect these decisions to stick with me, but they’ve shaped my days in ways I never saw coming. That neon hair? Still get compliments. That mystery box? Snapped my favorite photo last week. The Yes No Button doesn’t just decide—it dares you to live a little louder. It’s my partner-in-crime for life’s oddball moments, and I wouldn’t trade it for a crystal ball.

Your Turn to Get Crazy

What’s your wildest “Should I?” lurking in the shadows? Dye your dog’s tail? Eat dessert first? Click over to Yes No Button and let it loose. It’s free, it’s fast, and it might just spark your next crazy tale. I’ve shared my 10—what’s yours? Hit the comments; I’m dying to know where this button takes you!